Monday, July 6, 2015

The Essential One.

Do you know anybody who has a distinct charm and can mingle with different kinds of people? How about someone who never gets "out of place" in any event that he/she goes to?

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As for me, whati want is to be interesting to other people. I like to be in a situation where anybody I meet will find me fun to be with and worth spending time with. I prefer that they see and think of me as an exciting kind of person. An essential person. If there is such a thing.

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Below are the 5 behaviors which I have been practicing for quite some time now. They helped me improve my way of dealing with other people.

1. Be in the know. I do this by reading a lot. Significant news around the globe is made available on the internet. Just keep surfing the web to keep abreast of the news broadcast and current events. Be aware of what's in and what's out. If you are aware of what's happening around you, unquestionably, you'll know what to comment when people talk whatever topic pops up.

2. Listen. A person becomes annoying if he/she controls or dominates a conversation. Eventually the conversation itself becomes uninteresting and unexciting. Let's allow other people to talk. Let them utter a thing or two. The spotlight must be shared by everyone. Let the light go around for it will not only make a conversation interesting likewise more engaging. It's good to show great interest in other people. 

3. Be daring. I have always been adventurous and constantly open to new possibilities. I am not attached to some conventional traditions. I'm not scared of trying something new and unheard of.

4. Broaden your horizon. Get to know more people and smile often. Whenever I go to a party, I always look for the wallflower. I approach those who seem to be left out and no one to talk to. Probably, the only person he/she knows is the host/hostess who is also busy entertaining other guests at the party.

5. Be a guru. Sharpen up the talent you already have and share them. If given the opportunity to perform at a certain event, do not hesitate to participate. Mentor someone and let them he/she learn from you.

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Some folks are born with certain magnetism. They are the life of the party and can easily put a smile on people's faces. They seem to hold a candle that lights up in every room they go to. Let's aspire to hold that candle in the future. 

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